Better Than All The Rest

And yet, Honesty is the best approach.

The most rewarding way to be with people.

The less painful when you don't get what you want out of it.

The approach that lets you sleep at night.

The approach with the least "what if's".

The easiest way to get what you want is to be forthcoming about it, to act on it.

Doubting your own needs, desires and feelings is more destructive than a broken heart. It erodes the very link between mind and heart, it poisons the lifeblood of love and compassion. It makes you blacken your most precious visceral values until you no longer recognize them as supreme, as good, as pure, you being to lose your understanding of yourself, of your identity and what makes you tick.

And that is a horrible thing.